We spend January 1 walking through our lives, room by room, drawing up a list of work to be done, cracks to be patched. Maybe this year, to balance the list, we ought to walk through the rooms of our lives…not looking for flaws, but for potential.
Ellen Goodman
On Sunday afternoon, the few remaining Cleveland found ourselves sitting at meals and in hotel lobbies recalling the moments that touched us. Here is my top 8 in no particular order.
1) Lee Nagel quoted me.
Lee Nagel keynoted the first conference I ever attended in youth ministry. I can still remember watching him on stage. I learned a lesson from him at the conference that informs the way I do ministry to this day. Not only did I get to introduce him, but he quoted things I had said earlier in the conference. Humbling.
2) Have my parents and peers meet each other.
There are so many people who have helped me to grow and change because of the work we are blessed to do. Many of them were in Cleveland. It was a blessing for my parents to meet these people and these people to me my parents.
3) Watching Steve Angisano at dance practice
There is no who takes dance practice more seriously. “Make your sparkle fingers pop!” All of this is rooted in wanting to put on the very best show for the people we love. As much as people love the show we put on Saturday, it can’t hold a candle to rehearsal. In less than 2 hours we put the show together. It is so much fun watching these people I love put there heart in the ridiculousness that we have written for them. It took one e-mail that read, “find ugly Christmas sweeter” to start smack to talk on who could find the ugliest. It is a great moment of community and support.
What we all need
Why I am going to hell
4) Building relationships with the sound, lights, and stage crew
The crew from DWP love this event. As house manager said, “We do jobs all year, but we love being here.” There are dedicated to provide a quality event. They did some many things that no body could see. They always did it with a smile.
5) Hearing conference participants share the moments of the weekend that touched then.
It felt like I was running small group all week. People I have never met walked up to me to tell me what they had learned, how they were challenged, or the moon walking bear that they had just found. It was amazing to know such growth was going on, and the at they need to make sure I knew about it.
6) Being aware enough to savor the opportunity of a lifetime to host this conference
The third time I ever juggled in public it was on the steps of the US Capital in front of 8000. I was just worried about doing my thing. Two hours later the drum of the “Checkered Cabs” walked off stage and looked at saying, “I just played my heart out on the Capital Steps and my parent saw it.” I realized I had missed the chance to savor the moment. I didn’t miss the moment at NCCYM. It is very likely I will never have the chance to fill that role again at this conference. I drank in and savored every moment. I was never in a rush. I brought none of the worries of what was going on back stage or the planning that still needed to be done for later parts of the conference. When I was on stage I simply soaked up the blessing that was that time on stage.
7) Seeing Joia Farmer thrive on stage
There are no words to describe how much I love Joia Farmer. It was so amazing to stand in the wings listening to the other musicians go on and on about how amazing she is. Having people like Kate Cutty turn to Bobby Fischer say, “You can’t leave until you hear Joia.”
8) Getting to say this to people I admire
Welcome. Thank you. I love you!
I read things like this and it makes me miss Studio 60 and the West Wing. I wish I could write like this.
Aaron Sorkin Conjures a Meeting of Obama and Bartlet
By MAUREEN DOWD
Now that he’s finally fired up on the soup-line economy, Barack Obama
knows he can’t fade out again. He was eager to talk privately to a
Democratic ex-president who could offer more fatherly wisdom — not to
mention a surreptitious smoke — and less fraternal rivalry. I called the
“West Wing” creator Aaron Sorkin (yes, truly) to get a read-out of the
meeting. This is what he wrote:
BARACK OBAMA knocks on the front door of a 300-year-old New Hampshire
farmhouse while his Secret Service detail waits in the driveway. The
door opens and OBAMA is standing face to face with former President JED
BARTLET.
BARTLET Senator.
OBAMA Mr. President.
BARTLET You seem startled.
OBAMA I didn’t expect you to answer the door yourself.
BARTLET I didn’t expect you to be getting beat by John McCain and a
Lancôme rep who thinks “The Flintstones” was based on a true story, so
let’s call it even.
OBAMA Yes, sir.
BARTLET Come on in.
BARTLET leads OBAMA into his study.
BARTLET That was a hell of a convention.
OBAMA Thank you, I was proud of it.
BARTLET I meant the Republicans. The Us versus Them-a-thon. As a
Democrat I was surprised to learn that I don’t like small towns, God,
people with jobs or America. I’ve been a little out of touch but is
there a mandate that the vice president be skilled at field dressing a
moose –
OBAMA Look –
BARTLET — and selling Air Force Two on eBay?
OBAMA Joke all you want, Mr. President, but it worked.
BARTLET Imagine my surprise. What can I do for you, kid?
OBAMA I’m interested in your advice.
BARTLET I can’t give it to you.
OBAMA Why not?
BARTLET I’m supporting McCain.
OBAMA Why?
BARTLET He’s promised to eradicate evil and that was always on my “to
do” list.
OBAMA O.K. –
BARTLET And he’s surrounded himself, I think, with the best possible
team to get us out of an economic crisis. Why, Sarah Palin just said
Fannie Mae and Freddie Mac had “gotten too big and too expensive to the
taxpayers.” Can you spot the error in that statement?
OBAMA Yes, Fannie Mae and Freddie Mac aren’t funded by taxpayers.
BARTLET Well, at least they are now. Kind of reminds you of the time
Bush said that Social Security wasn’t a government program. He was only
off by a little — Social Security is the largest government program.
OBAMA I appreciate your sense of humor, sir, but I really could use your
advice.
BARTLET Well, it seems to me your problem is a lot like the problem I
had twice.
OBAMA Which was?
BARTLET A huge number of Americans thought I thought I was superior to them.
OBAMA And?
BARTLET I was.
OBAMA I mean, how did you overcome that?
BARTLET I won’t lie to you, being fictional was a big advantage.
OBAMA What do you mean?
BARTLET I’m a fictional president. You’re dreaming right now, Senator.
OBAMA I’m asleep?
BARTLET Yes, and you’re losing a ton of white women.
OBAMA Yes, sir.
BARTLET I mean tons.
OBAMA I understand.
BARTLET I didn’t even think there were that many white women.
OBAMA I see the numbers, sir. What do they want from me?
BARTLET I’ve been married to a white woman for 40 years and I still
don’t know what she wants from me.
OBAMA How did you do it?
BARTLET Well, I say I’m sorry a lot.
OBAMA I don’t mean your marriage, sir. I mean how did you get America on
your side?
BARTLET There again, I didn’t have to be president of America, I just
had to be president of the people who watched “The West Wing.”
OBAMA That would make it easier.
BARTLET You’d do very well on NBC. Thursday nights in the old “ER” time
slot with “30 Rock” as your lead-in, you’d get seven, seven-five in the
demo with a 20, 22 share — you’d be selling $450,000 minutes.
OBAMA What the hell does that mean?
BARTLET TV talk. I thought you’d be interested.
OBAMA I’m not. They pivoted off the argument that I was inexperienced to
the criticism that I’m — wait for it — the Messiah, who, by the way, was
a community organizer. When I speak I try to lead with inspiration and
aptitude. How is that a liability?
BARTLET Because the idea of American exceptionalism doesn’t extend to
Americans being exceptional. If you excelled academically and are able
to casually use 690 SAT words then you might as well have the press
shoot video of you giving the finger to the Statue of Liberty while the
Dixie Chicks sing the University of the Taliban fight song. The people
who want English to be the official language of the United States are
uncomfortable with their leaders being fluent in it.
OBAMA You’re saying race doesn’t have anything to do with it?
BARTLET I wouldn’t go that far. Brains made me look arrogant but they
make you look uppity. Plus, if you had a black daughter –
OBAMA I have two.
BARTLET — who was 17 and pregnant and unmarried and the father was a
teenager hoping to launch a rap career with “Thug Life” inked across his
chest, you’d come in fifth behind Bob Barr, Ralph Nader and a ficus.
OBAMA You’re not cheering me up.
BARTLET Is that what you came here for?
OBAMA No, but it wouldn’t kill you.
BARTLET Have you tried doing a two-hour special or a really good
Christmas show?
OBAMA Sir –
BARTLET Hang on. Home run. Right here. Is there any chance you could get
Michelle pregnant before the fall sweeps?
OBAMA The problem is we can’t appear angry. Bush called us the angry
left. Did you see anyone in Denver who was angry?
BARTLET Well … let me think. …We went to war against the wrong
country, Osama bin Laden just celebrated his seventh anniversary of not
being caught either dead or alive, my family’s less safe than it was
eight years ago, we’ve lost trillions of dollars, millions of jobs,
thousands of lives and we lost an entire city due to bad weather. So,
you know … I’m a little angry.
OBAMA What would you do?
BARTLET GET ANGRIER! Call them liars, because that’s what they are.
Sarah Palin didn’t say “thanks but no thanks” to the Bridge to Nowhere.
She just said “Thanks.” You were raised by a single mother on food
stamps — where does a guy with eight houses who was legacied into
Annapolis get off calling you an elitist? And by the way, if you do
nothing else, take that word back. Elite is a good word, it means well
above average. I’d ask them what their problem is with excellence. While
you’re at it, I want the word “patriot” back. McCain can say that the
transcendent issue of our time is the spread of Islamic fanaticism or he
can choose a running mate who doesn’t know the Bush doctrine from the
Monroe Doctrine, but he can’t do both at the same time and call it
patriotic. They have to lie — the truth isn’t their friend right now.
Get angry. Mock them mercilessly; they’ve earned it. McCain decried
agents of intolerance, then chose a running mate who had to ask if she
was allowed to ban books from a public library. It’s not bad enough she
thinks the planet Earth was created in six days 6,000 years ago complete
with a man, a woman and a talking snake, she want
s schools to teach the
rest of our kids to deny geology, anthropology, archaeology and common
sense too? It’s not bad enough she’s forcing her own daughter into a
loveless marriage to a teenage hood, she wants the rest of us to guide
our daughters in that direction too? It’s not enough that a woman
shouldn’t have the right to choose, it should be the law of the land
that she has to carry and deliver her rapist’s baby too? I don’t know
whether or not Governor Palin has the tenacity of a pit bull, but I know
for sure she’s got the qualifications of one. And you’re worried about
seeming angry? You could eat their lunch, make them cry and tell their
mamas about it and God himself would call it restrained. There are times
when you are simply required to be impolite. There are times when
condescension is called for!
OBAMA Good to get that off your chest?
BARTLET Am I keeping you from something?
OBAMA Well, it’s not as if I didn’t know all of that and it took you
like 20 minutes to say.
BARTLET I know, I have a problem, but admitting it is the first step.
OBAMA What’s the second step?
BARTLET I don’t care.
OBAMA So what about hope? Chuck it for outrage and put-downs?
BARTLET No. You’re elite, you can do both. Four weeks ago you had the
best week of your campaign, followed — granted, inexplicably — by the
worst week of your campaign. And you’re still in a statistical dead
heat. You’re a 47-year-old black man with a foreign-sounding name who
went to Harvard and thinks devotion to your country and lapel pins
aren’t the same thing and you’re in a statistical tie with a war hero
and a Cinemax heroine. To these aged eyes, Senator, that’s what progress
looks like. You guys got four debates. Get out of my house and go back
to work.
OBAMA Wait, what is it you always used to say? When you hit a bump on
the show and your people were down and frustrated? You’d give them a pep
talk and then you’d always end it with something. What was it …?
BARTLET “Break’s over.”
I am not a cook by anyone’s definition, but this is even something I can handle.
2 cups frozen raspberries (or strawberries or blueberries)
1/4 cup white sugar
1/4 cup water
a little lemon zest
Simmer for 8 to 10 minutes.
Put over ice cream or cake.
As I write this I am trying not to eat my own lips and I lick them clean.
From NPR host Peter Sagal:
Judging from the reactions I’ve seen and read and heard (and in some
cases felt) during last week’s DNC and this week’s RNC, so far, I would
say that what Americans want, regardless of party, from our national
politics is not reform, or hope, or change, or governance, or strength,
or defense, or charity, or a hand up, or to be left alone, or moral
leadership, or inspiration, or moderation in the pursuit of virtue, or
religious inspiration, but, instead, to see our guy (or gal) hit their
guy (or gal?) in the face, very hard, over and over again.
I have no horse in this race. I will be voting Libertarian in November.
With that being said, I have been dismayed at the number of times that participating as a community organizers has been dismissed at not being significant service.
Personally, I think the less government there is and the more community activism there is, it is better for all.
Community organizing can be loosely defined as [via wiki]:
a process by which people are brought together to act in common self-interest or to help others. While organizing describes any activity involving people interacting with one another in a formal manner, much community organizing is in the pursuit of a common agenda. Many groups seek populist goals and the ideal of participatory democracy. Community organizers create social movements by building a base of concerned people, mobilizing these community members to act, and developing leadership from and relationships among the people involved.
Community organizers act as area-wide coordinators of all the programs of different agencies so as best to meet community needs for health and welfare services. They also facilitate self-help programs initiated by local common-interest groups, for example, by training local leaders to analyze and solve the problems of a community. Community organizers work actively, as do other types of social workers, in community councils of social agencies and in community-action groups. At times the role of community organizers overlaps that of the social planners.
Here is a list of a few of my favorite community organizers:
A blast from the past…when lettuce and tomato where a big deal.
“The people I distrust most are those who want to improve our lives but have only one course of action.”
Frank Herbert
“If I had to live my life again, I’d make the same mistakes, only sooner.”
Tallulah Bankhead
“If a cluttered desk is the sign of a cluttered mind, what is the significance of a clean desk?”
Laurence J. Peter